What’s On Your Sex Bucket List? Do you have a bucket list? What about a sex bucket list? We are often so focused on the goals we want to accomplish and the places we want to see before we die, we forget about some of the sexy things we...
9 Sex Tips To Try Tonight Okay maybe you don’t have to try all nine sex tips tonight, but they should definitely go on your “to do” list. Sex, like most things, is only as good (or bad) as you let it be. When folk say they are...
The Science Behind Fake Orgasms Faking an orgasm. Most women have done it. Meg Ryan immortalized the process in the infamous diner scene in When Harry Met Sally. And most film and TV depictions depict women faking it ’cause they have an inept lover, and they don’t want to...
The How-To Guide to Having an Abortion So Jezebel to tackle the hot-button issue of abortion in a very practical, non-judgmental way with their article The Girl’s Guide to Having an Abortion. With a topic that is so often mired in political hoopla and religious zealotry Jezebel does a great job in...
What’s Your Kinky Level? Sex on the Beach Magazine had a nice post asking about folks bedroom behaviors and wondering on the list of kinky where do you stand. Here’s a list of the kinkyfied activities they listed: 1.Threesomes or Moresomes 2. Bondage (Taped & Tied)..maybe even nailed! 3....
Let’s Talk Erogenous Zones When it comes to sex it’s what I like to call “the intangibles” that can take an average sexual encounter and turn it into an amazing one. For me, the intangibles generally include doing naughty things to non-obvious body parts. You know, the fingers, toes,...
Lesbian Sex: No Penis Needed So I was poking around on The Frisky yesterday and came across the funniest of articles. Seems like this young woman was told by her (male) friend that she couldn’t possibly have had sex with her girlfriend…’cause well…she didn’t have a penis: I was...
The Real Reasons Women Have Sex Seems like women have sex for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with love, pleasure or having babies. According to new research the real reasons women have sex are varied, and, some would say, surprising: “Research has shown most men...
Don’t throw your condoms out yet. There are still STD’s to worry about, but withdrawal seems to be just as effective as condoms when it comes to preventing pregnancy: Researchers at the Guttmacher Institute studied the results of several recent national surveys and found that if a couple uses...
Kinky Inquiring minds want to know.
Let Your Freak Flag Fly Or Not While finding a man in the strip club seems to be the most controversial article you will find in the June issue of Essence (spawned at least 3 major responses here, here and here). The one that caught my eye (and ire)...
The Good Sex Gospel Over the past six or so months, there has been a slew of articles on how churches are encouraging their married parishioners to have more sex. Or as I like to call it: The Good Sex Gospel. There was the minister who suggested wives have...
Don’t Sleep With Him Yet While sometimes our hormones can get the better of our common sense, it’s always best to try and keep a cool head when the object of our desire is readily available. While waiting may not always be what you want to do, here are...
Racism Affects Maternal Health Of Black Women Seems like racism is even more insidious than most could imagine. High maternal mortality rates in African American women appear to be caused by the stress of dealing with racism in daily life: According to Women’s eNews, African American women “are three-to-six...
U.S. syphilis rates rose for a seventh year in 2007, driven by gay and bisexual men, while chlamydia reached record numbers and gonorrhea remained at alarming levels -- especially among blacks, health officials said on Tuesday.
What’s Your Sexual Fantasy I don’t have a whole lot going in the way of sexual fantasies. Sex in the rain. Public sex. Watching other folk get it on But what I really like and am often afraid (ashamed) to admit is that I like to be dominated. Not...
Why Is It Difficult for Women to Have an Orgasm? According to reports, roughly 70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)! A lot...
Is Cheating Natural for Women? So often when the discussion is had about who is hardwired to cheat, the consensus is always men are cheaters by nature and women are more monogamous by nature. That we just aren’t wired to cheat in the way men are. These conversations always...
Nothing Wrong With Waiting To Have Sex Now anyone who has been reading this blog long enough knows that I don’t have any problems with casual sex. Personally, I feel if you’re a grown-up and you want to do grown-up things…go for it. As long as folk are on...
A fact older women realize and younger women are learning, is that your orgasm is your responsibility. So often I hear women complaining about how bad...
What’s It With Men And Anal Sex? No, really? Why is it men feel the need to stick their penis in every available orifice? Right now I’m just waiting for some guy to say to me, “Hey baby, let me stick it in your ear.” SMH. My current “friend”...
Don’t Lead With Your Pussy Yeah, you read that right. Don’t put your pussy on a platter. What do I mean by that? Exhibit A: Nicole’s date with Kalik on Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days Could she seem anymore desperate? Could she have made it any clearer that...
The Good Girl’s Guide to Kinky Sex: 4 Sex Positions for Having Sex With Yourself April 3, 2018
How To Suck Dick Like A Pro February 11, 2018
5 Fun Penis Facts We Bet You Didn’t Know January 16, 2018
The Sex Bucket List: 30 Sexy Things to Do Before You Die September 10, 2016
How to Control Your Gag Reflex During Oral Sex June 26, 2016
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