Dating Questions Women Should Ask Men So Mr Serial Divorcee Relationship Expert Steve Harvey has five questions all women should ask men when they are dating. While I don’t agree with most of Stevy Harvey’s brand of relationship advice I do believe that his “5 questions,” are pretty on...
Date Marriage Minded Men In Tell him to “Put a Ring On It” I briefly mentioned the need to date marriage minded men if marriage is your goal. This should be a no-brainer when you’ve decided that you want more than a casual relationship, but for too many of...
You Sex The Bad Boy Not Marry Him Songs like this make me want to slap whoever writes them. Unfortunately too many women practice this kind of garbage. There’s a very simple rule to live by: You sleep with the thug. You marry the good guy. And no, before...
Tell Him To Put A Ring On It Last week we learned about the six guidelines for women to get married according to John T. Molloy and the research he conducted for his book, Why Men Marry Some Men and Not Others. That post focused on guideline 5: Keep...
Stop Looking for Love So often we have in our head the type of man we want. By the time we’ve graduated form college and head into the real world we’ve perfected our list of must-haves: tall, dark handsome, educated, ambitious, successful or headed in that direction….etc. But what...
Date Your Wallet Not Your Fantasy I have a pet peeve. Men who believe that they should have a “dime” yet only amount to a nickel themselves and then these same men sit around and call all women gold diggers and complain how women won’t “give a good brother...
It’s Time To Get A Life Get a Life. It never ceases to amaze me how many women sit and complain that they can never meet a man but when you question them further you realize that all they do every day is go home, go to work and...
The Truth Is: Looks Matter A German study shows what we all know but what we rarely want to admit. Science is confirming what most women know: When given the choice for a mate, men go for good looks. – And guys won’t be surprised to learn that women...
Don’t Interrogate Your Date Exhibit A: Lindsay’s Date With Oliver on Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days Okay. I can be guilty of this one from time to time but I’ve learned to get the information I need without the guy feeling like he’s at the inquisition. Lindsay BADGERED...
Don’t Lead With Your Pussy Yeah, you read that right. Don’t put your pussy on a platter. What do I mean by that? Exhibit A: Nicole’s date with Kalik on Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days Could she seem anymore desperate? Could she have made it any clearer that...
The Missing Black Men So there’s a shortage of marriageable Black men. Of Black educated, professional men to be exact. This isn’t news. It’s so not news that I’m not going to even bother going into details about the how and the why things are the way they are....
Learn The Art Of Volume Dating Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 days is an excellent example of volume dating. Volume dating just means dating a lot people often and regularly. Remember, I said you wouldn’t have to kiss a lot of frogs but you would have to date them....
Knowing When To Move On Is Hard Okay, so in a previous post I talked about the fallacy of chemistry and why it shouldn’t be used as the sole criteria when deciding on a second date. Now I’m going to address a really important issue that I think women...
Don’t Rely Solely On Chemistry So I’ve been watching Essence 30 Dates in 30 Days. I won’t comment on Essence continuing to feed into the, “Black women are so desperate and they can’t think of anyting else but how to get a man,” message that seems to be everywhere...
Getting A Date Isn’t Rocket Science I’m really beginning to think that many Black woman are clueless on how to get a date. And I don’t really understand why that is because getting a date is not that difficult. I could I have a date tonight if I wanted...
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