How To Have Amazing Phone Sex

Phone sex and Skype sex are great ways to keep the passion burning if you and your love are at a distance. Or it can just be a nice way to add a little spice to an existing relationship. However, if you’re new to the phone sex thing it can seem a little daunting. I mean, what the hell are you supposed to do anyway? No worries.

In this installment of The Good Girl’s Guide to Kinky Sex, we are giving you the complete guide to talking dirty. By the time you’re done you’ll be phone sexing – skype sexing – it up like a pro.

1. Relax

Have a class of wine or two (or three). Nerves can kill what is supposed to be a sexy good time. If you’re not one for talking dirty it can be completely nerve racking if you’re phone sexing or skype sexing it for the first time. Nothing is worst then attempting to give a good phone game and all you can do is giggle because of nerves or going silent once that camera is on and your honey is staring back at you. Do what you can to relax before the fun begins.

2. Set the Mood

While it’s true when it comes to sexting and phone sex you can get a pedicure or watch a movie while doing it, but if you REALLY want to get into it and enjoy it for all it’s worth, take the time to set the mood. Take a nice shower, put on some sexy lingerie and have that aforementioned class of wine if you’re so inclined. Pre-gaming goes a long way.

3. Make it Dirty

Men are visual creatures and that trait holds true when it comes to phone sex or sexting. Your words should be descriptive and downright nasty. You should use language that would make a sailor blush. I guarantee you he doesn’t want to hear how you’re feeling hot and want him to make love to him. What he wants to hear is how you want his big black dick to come fuck your dripping wet pussy.  And believe me I understand how it can be VERY difficult to say such things if you’re not used to using such language, but if you can get past your comfort zone it will make the experience so much better and rewarding for both of you.

4. Make Him Feel Like the Man

Keeping with the above theme tell him in no uncertain very descriptive terms what you feel about him and how he makes you feel.  Tell him he has the best dick you’ve ever seen. Tell him you love to suck his dick and have him cum all in your mouth. Tell him no one can make you cum harder than he does. You get the idea. The more effusive the better. The nastier the better.

5. Tell Him What You Want Him to Do to You

This phone sexing, sexting or skype sexing ain’t all about him. You need to be clear about what you want from him. What you want him to do to you. And let’s be clear, he is going to ask you – so you should have an answer ready. So tell him you want him to lick your pussy until you cum all over his face. Tell him you want him to bite then  slap your ass. Tell him you want him to finger fuck you ’till you squirt. You get the idea. Whatever it is you think you want, tell him in the clearest, dirtiest most descriptive way possible. He’ll love you for it.

6. Tell Him What You are Going to Do to Him

So now you’ve told him how awesome you think he is and what you want him to do to you, now try telling him what you’re going to do to him. Think of everything you’ve done to him in the past and everything you want to do to him in the future. Now tell him these things in the naughtiest most confident way possible. Let him know there is no one who can suck his dick better. Tell him you’re going to fuck him ’till he’s moaning your name. Tell him you’re going to ride his face and how he’s going to love it. You get the idea.

7. Follow His Lead

If any of the above makes you squirm with uneasiness and you’re thinking “What the hell? I can’t do say of that.” No worries. Just follow his lead. Ultimately he’s going to want you to feel comfortable and want you to have a good time. If you can’t do the really raunchy stuff at  first no problem. Do what you can. Let him walk you through things and work your way to the more advanced sexy talk later.

8. Up the Ante

A little masturbation goes a long way p. Most folk can text with one hand and Skype sex is all about the visual. So go the manual route or whip out that vibrator while you’re doing your dirty talk. It will make the dirty words come much easier and if you’re skyping it, your guy will appreciate the visuals.

In the end it’s all about having fun and have new ways to pleas each other. Don’t over think things, relax and go with the flow. It will all work out in the end.

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